Having someone there during hard times.

Hello everyone, its been a while since I posted. I just wanted to share with you what happened to me this past weekend on Saturday.

So this Saturday. My family and I went to my uncle Joseph's funeral. This was a hard time for not only my family, but me too. I can't explain enough how thankful I am to have had the love of my life there. With him being there, I felt at ease and not as sad. It is really important to be with someone that makes you feel safe and at ease, and that also takes the pain away.

After the funeral, we went to the repast, and it was fulfilling to see my love meet majority of all my family. Considering the circumstances, I was happy he got to meet them.

So all I want to say is, if you have someone who is there for you during hard times, and turmoil. Someone who makes you happy even when you thought everything was finished. Cherish and love that person as much as they love you, because I guarantee that finding another will be finding a needle in a haystack.

New Friends for a better Relationship

My boyfriend and I encountered a problem with a friend of his, who to us, was trying to cause problems within our relationship, and we had to disconnect ourselves from that person. What I am trying to say is, that if you are in a very committed relationship and each of you are really serious about each other, and love each other, and trust one another, then you should not let anything or anyone interfere with your happiness. This means if you need to not be friends with some people, or disconnect from some family members, then so be it. If they are making it a habit to be negative or are trying to tear apart your relationship, then it is time to find some new people. Negativity is the last thing a great couple needs in their happy lives. When negativity starts getting into the relationship, then that is when rumors and lies start forming. The goal for the "haters" is to break up your happiness, because they're not happy in their relationship or because they're jealous. New friends, and new surroundings is needed when this happens.

Thanks to everyone who reads all my posts, I really appreciate it, and I hope you continue to read. I hope you all enjoy.

Dating a Latino man

Hello everyone, happy Monday to you all. It is a snowy day here in Chicago. I hope wherever you are its warm and sunny.
My thoughts on dating a Latino man is not really any much different than other men I've dated, except language barrier and food. Dating a man that's a different race than myself is really fun. I get to learn about his culture,as he also gets to learn about mine. I get to learn a different language also.
I think the best thing about being with a Latino man is, for me personally I find them really loving and caring, hardworking, loves to dance and have a good time. I also love how our families are not that much different. We can relate in so many ways. Yes everyone will have their opinions about dating a different race, but this is mine.

Thanks to all who read. I hope you enjoy my blog and continue to read. XOXO

Being in an Interracial Relationship

Being in an interracial relationship for me personally is great because I get to explore and find out new thing that I never knew about. My boyfriend Mike and I have been together almost a year now, and everyday we learn something new about each other. There is a lot of great things about being in an interracial relationship, and then there is the not so great things. When Michael and I first started dating, I could sense within my family that certain people were jealous or they gave me looks of uncertainty. This made me feel really sad, and disappointed because, I thought of how my mom felt when she married my dad who is white. I thought of how closed minded people can be, even your own family members. Even with random people we pass by on the street, they also look at us confused or with the expression of "why are they together"? It really becomes tiresome and irritating. What I find out is, that mostly older people will have these expressions and reactions. In my head, I'm thinking this is 2015 why is there even a hint of racism and prejudice in the world, and then I remember it's not the world it's the people who live in the world, the ones who are still stuck in the past, either it's black or white, no grey area.

Through all the hate, and disapproval I do not let interfere with who I am in love with and will marry in the future. If I worried about what other think and do, I would be in the nut house. So I say love who you love, and to hell with the ones who don't like it, because at the end of the day, your happiness is all that matter, and shouldn't let anyone stop you from that.